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Find out what can be the perfect solution to major life problems

Find out what can be the perfect solution to major life problems

Always heard this as an advice and knows it to be the correct solution to the issues and also that it actually works,

but somewhere down the line does not admire the whole concept or the idea of it!

Like why should someone let go?

Or else why should it be the same person to let go?

Why after feeling the agony should it be the same one to let go?

It does really become the issue of ego or otherwise just the notion that things won't be that gala when done so.

Well, it any ways is not that gala! But the art of admitting it is what is lacking.

Or is it just the hopes that one is never getting rid of?

However, there is a fine line between being hopeful and being foolish!

And we as humans need to respect that difference because we have been blessed with the capability to do so, clinging onto a thing, a feeling or a human seems okay because that is how relations last.

However clinging onto someone who has been unfaithful or hurting  is a self destructive idea!

Yes, one can change the other. Of course, but one cannot be experimenting with this idea for the whole life.

On very similar lines, even holding grudges does not work. Majority of the time the person does not even acknowledge it's mistake.

So then one is left with the only option- of letting go!

But this option seems too mainstream, too easy, too simple and too dull.

Like what after it? No one will ever notice or appreciate the fact that you did actually let go.

But let's clear the air out-

It is not easy to let go because fighting that pain which is inflicted onto you, forgetting it, clearing it out of the memory requires courage and a really very strong will power.

It cannot be dull because the whole thought of bearing it and then being indifferent to it is fascinating. Wouldn't that be called endurance at its best?

It is neither too mainstream because this is an option which is generally overlooked.

What difference would it make if it is simple? Aren't simple things beautiful? Amid this complicated society staying simple in thoughts and actions is a real charm!

And talking of expecting appreciation from the rest, well, that is again an art which many are deprived of, so expectations will hurt!

And thus- let go,

because it is never a dead end,

because there are many other things to explore,

because things do work out after that,

because life becomes more beautiful than earlier,

because hopes need to be tied to the right things,

because you deserve your own respect,

because ultimately you need to be happy, and that is what matters!

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