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Live In Marriage

Live In Marriage



It is often said that marriages are made in heaven. Marriage is a bond between two hearts. When the two souls meet, they are destined to be together for ever. Some keep the promises of flourishing the marriage till the end while some marriages are meant to be broken. Some marriages work and some don't. However it will remain a beautiful bond cherished by everyone.The two people has the responsibility to make efforts for working of this eternal relationship, one is husband and the other is wife. People says love is the only key for a successful marriage. People see husbands as the main authoritative person to run a family, but after few years as the time progress wife started complaining of lack of love and affection in the marriage. Husband gets busy in financially supporting the family and the wife is left behind waiting for that time when she used to be the star in the eyes of his husband. She long for the same love and affection which she used to get earlier. She starts thinking that there is no love between them now, and then the misunderstanding starts growing in this lovely relationship.

So, how to clear this misunderstanding? This is actually not misunderstanding but the bitter truth that both of them face. Once the life used to be so colorful and vibrant and now as the marriage gets older all the love fades away. But the older people says with time this bond becomes stronger. Yes true, the bond becomes stronger but without love how? Can anyone explain....I can explain, with time the desires of women starts minimizing, her only desire is to keep his man happy and family happy. Her whole life passes in raising her children. Husband also take their wife for granted. They think that this is their prime job and responsibility. Husband forget that this is his responsibility also. His wife has come a long way to stay with him and his family and it is his equal responsibility to love and take care of her in every aspect.I always have this thought in my mind that why God has made women so much strong that she keep doing everything without any pain and complaints. Why she has no time to think about herself and I got the answer that wife associates themselves with their husband and feel herself incomplete without him. She is totally dependent on his husband in terms of finances, love, security etc. For them husband is everything. Actually this is not her fault. Our older generation has instilled in them these thoughts of not finding their own self and self respect. I don't say don't love or don't get married but one should have the self respect and dignity and should know how to protect it. Don't allow anyone to hurt your these sentiments not even your husband. Love and respect for each other is the key for a successful marriage.

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